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Strap On Me - Silicone Bendable Strap-On

✔️ Made from body-safe, phthalate-free, non-porous silicone
✔️ Bendable shaft holds custom angle for targeted stimulation
✔️ Fully adjustable harness fits a wide range of body sizes
✔️ Latex-free design suitable for those with latex sensitivities
✔️ Compatible with O-ring-compatible dildos for versatile use

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What Is a Silicone Strap On and How Does It Work?

The silicone strap on from Strap On Me is a thoughtfully designed intimate product built for couples who want to explore new dimensions of pleasure together. Crafted from body-safe, phthalate-free silicone, it combines a flexible, poseable shaft with an adjustable fabric harness — giving you control, comfort, and confidence in equal measure. Whether you're new to strap-ons or looking to upgrade from a previous set, this product offers a genuinely user-friendly experience. You can browse our wider range of intimate wellness products in our Condoms and Sexual Health collection.

At £79.99, the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On sits at a mid-range price point that reflects its quality construction. The silicone shaft is non-porous, which matters enormously for hygiene — non-porous surfaces don't harbour bacteria the way porous materials can. That's a real practical benefit, not just a marketing claim.

How Does the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On Work?

The mechanism here is straightforward but clever. The bendable silicone core allows you to manually position the shaft at whatever angle suits you and your partner best. Unlike rigid alternatives, it holds its shape once bent, so you're not constantly readjusting mid-use. Here's how the key components work together:

Bendable silicone shaft: Internally structured to hold a set position, allowing customised angle and curvature.
Adjustable harness: Elasticated and fabric straps that fasten securely around the hips and thighs, distributing weight evenly.
O-ring attachment: The dildo attaches via a standard O-ring system, meaning it's also compatible with other O-ring-compatible dildos if you wish to swap.
Body-safe silicone: Non-porous, hypoallergenic, and easy to clean — a significant hygiene advantage over jelly or PVC alternatives.

Who Should Use the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On?

This product is designed for consenting adults who want to incorporate strap-on play into their intimate lives. It's particularly well-suited to:

Same-sex female couples exploring penetrative intimacy
Couples interested in role reversal or pegging
Individuals with erectile difficulties who wish to maintain penetrative intimacy with a partner
Anyone seeking a body-safe, adjustable, and reusable strap-on option

If you or your partner have skin sensitivities, the latex-free silicone construction is a genuine advantage. Those with known silicone allergies (a rare but real condition) should avoid this product. If you're managing any pelvic health conditions, it's worth speaking to a healthcare professional before use. Sexual health is an important part of overall wellbeing, and products like this can play a positive role in intimate relationships when used safely.

How Does the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On Compare to Other Strap-Ons?

Feature	Strap On Me Silicone Bendable	Standard Jelly/PVC Strap-On
Material	Body-safe silicone (non-porous)	Jelly/PVC (porous)
Bendability	Yes — holds custom angle	No — fixed shape
Latex-free	Yes	Varies by product
Harness adjustability	Fully adjustable multi-strap	Often limited adjustment

Is the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On Suitable for Sensitive Skin?

For most people, yes. The silicone used in this product is hypoallergenic and free from phthalates — chemicals sometimes found in cheaper adult products that have raised health concerns. Because silicone is non-porous, it doesn't absorb bodily fluids or bacteria, which makes it far easier to keep genuinely clean between uses. Always use a water-based personal lubricant with this product; silicone-based lubricants can break down the surface of silicone toys over time. You'll find a range of suitable options in our Personal Lubricants collection.

Store the product in a clean pouch or bag, away from direct sunlight and heat. If you notice any changes to the silicone surface — stickiness, discolouration, or cracking — discontinue use.

This product is a personal wellness device, not a medicine. If you have an underlying pelvic health condition or are recovering from surgery, speak to your doctor or pharmacist before use.

Strap On Me - Silicone Bendable Strap-On specifications

Product category	Sexual wellness / Intimate device
Brand	Strap On Me
Material	Body-safe silicone (phthalate-free, latex-free)
Mechanism	Bendable silicone shaft with adjustable fabric harness
Harness type	Adjustable multi-strap with O-ring attachment
Suitable for	Consenting adults; latex-sensitive individuals
UK classification	General consumer product (not a medicine)
Lubricant compatibility	Water-based lubricants only
Price	£79.99

Specifications of Strap On Me - Silicone Bendable Strap-On

What Is the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On and What Is It Used For?

The Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On is a body-safe intimate device designed for couples who want to explore penetrative play using a wearable harness and dildo system. It is used for consensual adult sexual activity and is not a medical device or medicine. The product is manufactured by Strap On Me, a brand known for producing quality intimate accessories using non-toxic materials.

Sexual wellbeing is a recognised component of overall health. The NHS acknowledges that a satisfying sex life contributes positively to mental and physical wellbeing for many people. Products like this one can support intimacy for couples navigating erectile difficulties, disability, or simply exploring new aspects of their relationship.

What Do You Need to Know Before Using the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On?

Before using this product, please read the following carefully. While this is not a medicine, there are important safety considerations to be aware of.

Do not use this product if:

You have a known allergy to silicone
You have open wounds, sores, or active infections in the area of intended use
You are recovering from pelvic, vaginal, or rectal surgery without medical clearance
You have a condition causing reduced sensation in the pelvic area, which may increase the risk of unnoticed injury

Warnings and precautions:

Always use a water-based lubricant — silicone-based lubricants degrade silicone surfaces
Inspect the product before each use for cracks, tears, or surface changes
Do not share this product between partners without thorough cleaning or use of a condom over the shaft
Keep out of reach of children
This product is for adult use only

Interactions:

Silicone-based lubricants — incompatible; will degrade the product surface
Oil-based lubricants — not recommended; can compromise material integrity and increase infection risk
Latex condoms — compatible if used over the shaft for additional hygiene

How Should You Use the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On?

Using this product correctly ensures both comfort and safety. Take your time, especially if this is your first experience with a strap-on harness. Communication with your partner throughout is essential.

Wash the silicone shaft thoroughly with warm water and mild soap before first use. Allow to dry completely.
Attach the silicone shaft to the harness O-ring, ensuring it is seated securely.
Step into the harness and adjust all straps so the fit is snug but not restrictive around the hips and thighs.
Bend the shaft to your preferred angle before or during use — it will hold the position.
Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to the shaft and the receiving partner's body.
Proceed slowly, checking in with your partner regularly, especially during initial penetration.
After use, remove the shaft from the harness and clean both components separately.

Indication	User	Guidance	Notes
Couples' penetrative play	Adults 18+	As desired, with consent	Use water-based lubricant throughout
Erectile difficulty support	Adults 18+	As needed	Consult GP if underlying condition suspected
Post-surgical intimacy	Adults 18+ with medical clearance	Only after healthcare professional approval	Start slowly; stop if discomfort occurs

What Are the Possible Side Effects of the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On?

This is not a medicine, so it does not have pharmacological side effects. However, as with any intimate product, some people may experience physical reactions. If you're also managing any related health concerns, our Women's Health collection includes products that may support your overall intimate wellbeing.

Common reactions:

Mild skin irritation or redness from harness straps, particularly with prolonged use
Temporary soreness if insufficient lubrication was used
Chafing around the hips or thighs from strap friction

Less common reactions:

Allergic contact dermatitis in individuals with silicone sensitivity (rare)
Vaginal or rectal discomfort if the product is used without adequate preparation or lubrication
Bruising or tissue trauma if used too forcefully

Stop use immediately if you experience significant pain, bleeding, or signs of infection such as unusual discharge, swelling, or fever. Seek medical advice promptly in these circumstances.

How Should You Store the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On?

Proper storage extends the life of your product and maintains hygiene between uses. Follow these guidelines:

Store in a clean, breathable pouch or dedicated storage bag — avoid airtight containers that trap moisture
Keep away from direct sunlight and heat sources, which can degrade silicone over time
Store separately from other silicone toys to prevent material interaction
Ensure the product is completely dry before storing to prevent bacterial growth
Keep out of reach of children at all times

If you have any questions about sexual health products or intimate wellbeing, our Condoms and Sexual Health collection offers a range of related products, and our pharmacist team is available for discreet advice.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Where can I buy the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On in the UK?

You can buy the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On online in the UK directly from Cured Pharmacy for £79.99. We offer discreet packaging and delivery, so your order arrives without any indication of its contents. Browse our full range of intimate products in our Condoms and Sexual Health collection.

Is the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On body-safe?

Yes, this product is made from body-safe, non-porous silicone that is free from phthalates and latex. Non-porous materials are significantly easier to clean and do not harbour bacteria in the way that porous materials like jelly or PVC can. This makes it a hygienic and safer choice for intimate use.

What lubricant should I use with a silicone strap on?

You should always use a water-based lubricant with any silicone intimate product, including this one. Silicone-based lubricants chemically interact with silicone toys and can cause the surface to become sticky, degraded, or porous over time. Oil-based lubricants are also not recommended as they can compromise the material and increase infection risk. You'll find suitable options in our Personal Lubricants collection.

How do I clean the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On?

Clean the silicone shaft with warm water and a mild, fragrance-free soap or a dedicated sex toy cleaner after every single use — this is non-negotiable for hygiene. The fabric harness can be hand-washed with gentle detergent and left to air-dry completely before storage. Never submerge the harness hardware in water, and always ensure both components are fully dry before storing them together.

Is the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On suitable for beginners?

Yes, the adjustable harness and poseable silicone shaft make this a genuinely accessible option for people new to strap-on play. The ability to bend the shaft to a comfortable angle before use removes a lot of the guesswork involved in positioning. Starting slowly, using plenty of water-based lubricant, and maintaining open communication with your partner will make the experience more comfortable and enjoyable.

Can I use the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On if I have a latex allergy?

Yes, this product is completely latex-free, making it suitable for individuals with latex allergies or sensitivities. The silicone construction is also hypoallergenic for the vast majority of users. If you have a known allergy to silicone specifically — which is rare but possible — you should avoid this product and consult your GP or allergist for guidance.

How do I adjust the harness on the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On?

The harness features multiple adjustable straps that fasten around the hips and thighs, accommodating a wide range of body sizes and shapes. Adjust all straps before use so the fit is secure but not uncomfortably tight — you should be able to move freely without the harness shifting. It's worth doing a dry run with the harness on before adding the shaft, just to get the fit right.

How does the bendable shaft work on this strap on?

The shaft contains an internal structure that allows you to manually bend and position it at your preferred angle, and it holds that position during use. This is particularly useful for targeting specific areas of stimulation or accommodating different body positions. Unlike rigid dildos, the bendable design gives you far more flexibility without requiring constant readjustment.

Can the dildo be swapped out on the Strap On Me harness?

Yes. The harness uses a standard O-ring attachment system, which means it is compatible with most O-ring-compatible dildos from other brands as well. This gives you the flexibility to customise your experience by choosing a different size or shape of dildo if you wish. Always ensure any replacement dildo is made from body-safe, non-porous material.

What are the alternatives to the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On?

Alternatives include strap-on harness sets from brands such as Sportsheets, Tantus, and Fun Factory, all of which offer body-safe materials and adjustable designs at varying price points. The key features to compare are material safety (look for non-porous silicone), harness adjustability, and O-ring compatibility. The Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On stands out specifically for its poseable shaft, which many alternatives do not offer.

Is the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On suitable for use after pelvic surgery?

You should not use any penetrative intimate product after pelvic, vaginal, or rectal surgery without explicit clearance from your surgeon or GP. Recovery timelines vary significantly depending on the type of surgery, and using a product like this too soon could cause injury or delay healing. Always seek professional medical advice before resuming penetrative sexual activity post-surgery.

How long does the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On last?

With proper care — thorough cleaning after every use, correct storage away from heat and sunlight, and use of compatible lubricants only — a high-quality silicone product like this can last for several years. Inspect the silicone surface regularly for any signs of degradation such as stickiness, discolouration, or cracking, and replace the product if any of these are observed. The harness fabric may show wear sooner than the silicone shaft.

Can I use a condom with the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On?

Yes, using a condom over the silicone shaft is a practical option, particularly if you are sharing the product between partners or want an additional layer of hygiene protection. Standard latex or non-latex condoms are both compatible with this product. Using a condom does not replace the need to clean the product thoroughly after use.

What should I do if I experience irritation after using this product?

Stop using the product immediately and allow the affected area to rest. Mild irritation often resolves on its own within a day or two, particularly if it was caused by friction or insufficient lubrication. If you develop signs of infection — such as unusual discharge, swelling, persistent redness, or fever — contact your GP promptly. For general skin care support, you may find our Skin Care collection helpful for minor irritation management.

What is the latest research on silicone sex toy safety?

Research consistently supports medical-grade and body-safe silicone as one of the safest materials for intimate products due to its non-porous nature, chemical stability, and ease of sterilisation. Studies have highlighted concerns about phthalates and other chemicals found in cheaper PVC or jelly products, reinforcing the importance of choosing non-porous, phthalate-free materials. Regulatory bodies including the MHRA classify intimate devices under general product safety legislation rather than medical device regulation, so choosing reputable brands with transparent material disclosures — like Strap On Me — remains the most reliable safeguard for consumers.

How Should You Use the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On?

Using this product correctly makes a real difference to both comfort and safety. Before your first use, wash the silicone shaft thoroughly with warm water and mild soap, then allow it to dry completely. Take time to familiarise yourself with the harness before use — adjusting straps while wearing the harness for the first time can feel fiddly, so a practice run helps.

Follow these steps for safe, comfortable use:

What Is the Correct Dose of the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On?

This is not a medicine, so there is no pharmacological dose. However, the guidance below outlines appropriate use across different contexts to help you use the product safely and comfortably.

When Is the Best Time to Use the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On?

There is no medically prescribed time for using this product — use it whenever you and your partner feel comfortable and ready. That said, taking time to prepare properly makes a significant difference. Ensure both partners are relaxed, the product is clean, and you have water-based lubricant to hand before you begin. Rushing preparation is the most common cause of discomfort with strap-on products.

If either partner experiences anxiety or discomfort, it's perfectly fine to pause and try again another time. There's no benefit to pushing through discomfort — and doing so can cause physical or emotional harm.

How Long Can You Use the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On For?

There is no set time limit for individual sessions, but comfort should always guide duration. If either partner experiences soreness, fatigue, or discomfort, stop and rest. Over time, with regular use and proper care, the silicone shaft and harness should remain in good condition for several years. Inspect the product regularly for signs of wear or degradation, and replace it if the silicone surface becomes sticky, discoloured, or cracked.

Do not exceed the recommended use guidelines. If in doubt, speak to your pharmacist.

What Are the Most Common Side Effects of the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On?

This product is not a medicine, so it does not produce pharmacological side effects. However, as with any intimate device, some users may experience physical reactions — particularly during initial use or if the product is used without adequate preparation. Most reactions are mild and resolve quickly with appropriate care.

Mild skin redness or irritation from harness strap friction
Temporary soreness in the vaginal or rectal area if insufficient lubrication was used
Chafing around the hips or inner thighs from prolonged harness wear
Muscle fatigue in the wearer's hips or thighs during extended use

What Are the Less Common Side Effects of the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On?

Less commonly, some users may experience reactions that require more attention. These are typically associated with pre-existing sensitivities, incorrect lubricant use, or insufficient preparation before use.

Allergic contact dermatitis in individuals with silicone sensitivity (rare)
Vaginal or rectal discomfort or micro-tears if penetration is too forceful or rushed
Bruising of soft tissue if the product is used without adequate lubrication or at an uncomfortable angle
Yeast infection or bacterial vaginosis if the product is not cleaned thoroughly between uses

What Are the Serious Side Effects of the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On?

Serious adverse reactions are uncommon when this product is used correctly. However, you should be aware of the following warning signs that require prompt medical attention. Do not ignore these symptoms or attempt to self-treat without professional guidance.

Seek medical advice immediately if you experience significant pain during or after use, visible bleeding that does not resolve quickly, signs of infection such as unusual discharge, persistent swelling, fever, or a burning sensation that does not improve within 24–48 hours. These symptoms may indicate tissue trauma or infection requiring clinical assessment.

What Should You Do If You Experience Side Effects?

If you notice mild irritation or soreness, stop using the product and allow the affected area to rest. Applying a fragrance-free, gentle moisturiser to areas of skin irritation from harness straps may help soothe discomfort. Ensure you are using a water-based lubricant and that the product is thoroughly cleaned before your next use.

For any signs of infection — including unusual discharge, persistent redness, swelling, or fever — contact your GP promptly. Do not delay seeking medical advice if symptoms are severe or worsening. Your pharmacist can also offer initial guidance on managing mild skin reactions.

Can the Strap On Me Silicone Bendable Strap-On Interact With Other Products?

This product does not interact with medicines. However, there are important material compatibility considerations. Silicone-based lubricants will chemically degrade the surface of silicone toys, making them porous and harder to clean — always use water-based lubricants exclusively. Oil-based lubricants are similarly incompatible and can also increase the risk of vaginal infections by disrupting the natural pH balance. Latex condoms are fully compatible with this product and can be used over the shaft for additional hygiene.

If you are concerned about any side effects, contact your pharmacist or GP immediately.