LOVENSE - Lapis

What Is the Lovense Lapis Couples Vibrator UK?

The Lovense Lapis is a wearable, app-controlled couples vibrator UK shoppers have been searching for — a thoughtfully designed intimate wellness device built for shared pleasure, whether you're in the same room or miles apart. Priced at £149.99, it sits at the intersection of technology and intimacy, offering Bluetooth and internet-connected control through the free Lovense Remote app. If you've been curious about how technology can support a more connected intimate life, this is worth understanding properly.

Sexual wellbeing is a recognised component of overall health. The NHS acknowledges that a satisfying intimate life contributes positively to mental and emotional wellbeing. For couples navigating distance, stress, or simply wanting to explore new dimensions of their relationship, a device like the Lapis can play a meaningful role. You can browse our wider range of condoms and sexual health products alongside this device for a complete approach to intimate wellness.

How Does the Lovense Lapis Work?

The Lapis uses dual-motor vibration technology paired with app connectivity to deliver a customisable experience. Here's how it functions:

• Connect the device to the Lovense Remote app via Bluetooth (available on iOS and Android).
• One or both partners can control vibration patterns, speed, and intensity directly from their smartphone.
• For long-distance use, the app switches to internet-connected mode, allowing control from anywhere in the world.
• The device also responds to sound, music, and pre-programmed patterns for a hands-free experience.
• A manual button on the device allows standalone use without the app.

The wearable design means it can be used during partnered intimacy, giving both individuals a shared, synchronised experience. It's rechargeable via a magnetic USB cable and fully waterproof — practical details that matter for everyday use.

Who Should Consider Using the Lovense Lapis?

This device is designed for adults in consensual relationships who want to explore app-connected intimacy. It's particularly well-suited to:

• Couples in long-distance relationships seeking a way to maintain physical connection remotely.
• Partners who want to introduce shared, app-guided experiences into their intimate life.
• Individuals interested in exploring vibration-based stimulation with a partner's involvement.
• Those who prefer body-safe, phthalate-free silicone materials for intimate use.

It is not suitable for anyone with a pacemaker or implanted electronic device, as vibration devices may theoretically interfere with some medical equipment — always consult your GP if you have any concerns. It is also not intended for use by anyone under 18.

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Is the Lovense Lapis Safe to Use With Personal Lubricants?

Yes — but the type of lubricant matters. The Lapis is made from medical-grade silicone, which means silicone-based lubricants should be avoided, as they can break down the surface of the material over time. Always use a water-based lubricant for compatibility and longevity. You can find suitable options in our personal lubricants collection. This is a couples vibrator UK users should feel confident using safely with the right accessories.

If you experience any skin irritation, redness, or discomfort during or after use, discontinue immediately and consult a healthcare professional. Those with known latex or silicone sensitivities should seek medical advice before use.

This product is a wellness device, not a medicine. Speak to your doctor or pharmacist before using if you have an underlying medical condition or are taking other medicines.

What Is the Lovense Lapis and What Is It Used For?

The Lovense Lapis is a wearable, app-controlled couples vibrator designed for shared intimate use between consenting adults. It is not a medical device or medicine. Its primary purpose is to support intimate connection and sexual wellbeing — whether partners are in the same room or separated by distance. Sexual health and wellbeing are recognised as important aspects of overall health by the NHS, and products like the Lapis can support couples in maintaining intimacy in a safe, consensual way.

The device connects to the free Lovense Remote app (iOS and Android), enabling one or both partners to control vibration intensity, patterns, and timing. It can also sync to music or ambient sound for a more immersive experience. This is a couples vibrator UK adults can use confidently, provided they follow the guidance below.

What Do You Need to Know Before Using the Lovense Lapis?

Before using the Lapis, there are some important considerations to be aware of. This device is intended for adults aged 18 and over only.

Do not use this device if:

• You have a pacemaker or any implanted electronic medical device.
• You have a known allergy or sensitivity to silicone.
• You have open wounds, sores, or active skin infections in the area of intended use.
• You are pregnant and have been advised to avoid vibration stimulation — consult your midwife or GP first.
• You are under 18 years of age.

Interactions and compatibility warnings:

• Do not use silicone-based lubricants — these degrade the silicone surface of the device.
• Do not use with latex condoms if silicone lubricant has been applied to the device.
• Avoid use near electronic medical equipment without prior medical advice.
• Do not share the device between partners without thorough cleaning, or use a condom over the device to reduce infection risk.

If you have any concerns about intimate health, our women's health section includes products that may support your overall intimate wellbeing alongside this device.

How Should You Use the Lovense Lapis?

Using the Lapis correctly ensures both safety and the best possible experience. Follow these steps:

1. Charge the device fully using the magnetic USB cable before first use (approximately 70–80 minutes).
2. Clean the device thoroughly with warm water and mild, fragrance-free soap or a dedicated toy cleaner.
3. Download the free Lovense Remote app on your smartphone (iOS or Android).
4. Turn on the Lapis by holding the button for 3 seconds until it vibrates.
5. Open the app and follow the on-screen pairing instructions to connect via Bluetooth.
6. Apply a water-based lubricant to the device as needed before use.
7. Use the app to select vibration patterns, intensity, or sync to music.
8. For long-distance use, both partners should have the app installed and be connected to the internet.
9. After use, clean the device again and store it in a cool, dry place.

What Are the Possible Side Effects of the Lovense Lapis?

The Lovense Lapis is made from body-safe, phthalate-free silicone and is designed to minimise the risk of adverse reactions. However, as with any intimate device, some individuals may experience unwanted effects.

Common effects to be aware of:

• Mild skin sensitivity or temporary redness at the site of use.
• Mild irritation if used without sufficient lubrication.
• Temporary numbness or tingling if used at high intensity for extended periods.

Less common effects:

• Allergic contact dermatitis in individuals with silicone sensitivity (rare).
• Vaginal microbiome disruption if hygiene protocols are not followed — the NHS advises maintaining good intimate hygiene to reduce infection risk.
• Discomfort or bruising if used incorrectly or with excessive pressure.

If you notice persistent irritation, unusual discharge, or signs of infection following use, stop using the device and consult your GP or a sexual health clinic. You can also explore our thrush treatments if you suspect a yeast infection has developed.

How Should You Store the Lovense Lapis?

• Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight and extreme temperatures.
• Keep in the original pouch or a clean, breathable storage bag to prevent dust accumulation.
• Do not store in an airtight container, which can encourage bacterial growth.
• Ensure the device is fully dry before storing to prevent mould or material degradation.
• Keep out of reach of children.
• Charge the battery to approximately 50% if storing for extended periods to preserve battery health.
• Do not store near sharp objects that could puncture or damage the silicone surface.