LOVENSE - Flexer

What Is the Lovense Flexer Vibrator and Who Is It For?

Sexual wellbeing is a recognised part of overall health, and finding products that genuinely support intimacy — whether solo or with a partner — matters. The Lovense Flexer vibrator is a wearable, dual-stimulation device designed to be worn internally during everyday activities or intimate moments. It targets both the G-spot and the clitoris simultaneously, using a flexible, body-safe silicone frame that adapts to your anatomy. At £129.99, it sits firmly in the mid-to-high range of the sexual wellness market, and for good reason. If you're exploring ways to support your sexual health, you might also find our condoms and sexual health collection a useful companion resource.

The device connects wirelessly to the Lovense app via Bluetooth, giving you — or a partner anywhere in the world — full control over vibration intensity and patterns. It's rechargeable, whisper-quiet, and designed for hands-free wear. Whether you're new to app-controlled devices or upgrading from an older model, the Flexer is built with both comfort and versatility in mind.

How Does the Lovense Flexer Work?

The Flexer uses a dual-motor design — one motor sits at the internal arm to stimulate the anterior vaginal wall (commonly associated with G-spot sensation), while the second motor sits at the external arm to provide clitoral stimulation. Both motors can be controlled independently or together through the app. Here's how the mechanism works in practice:

• The flexible silicone body is inserted so the smaller arm sits inside the vaginal canal and the larger arm rests against the external clitoris.
• Bluetooth pairs the device to the Lovense Remote app (iOS and Android compatible).
• You can choose from preset vibration patterns or create custom ones within the app.
• Long-distance control is enabled via the app's internet-connected mode, allowing a partner to control the device from any location globally.
• The device is also compatible with Lovense's music sync and interactive content features.

Battery life on a full charge provides approximately 3.5 hours of use, and a full recharge takes around 70 minutes via the magnetic USB charger.

Who Should Use the Lovense Flexer?

The Flexer is designed for people with a vagina who are looking for hands-free, dual stimulation — either alone or with a partner. It's particularly well-suited to:

• Individuals who prefer clitoral and internal stimulation simultaneously.
• Couples in long-distance relationships who want to maintain physical intimacy remotely.
• People exploring sexual wellness devices for the first time and wanting a versatile, app-guided experience.
• Those who want a discreet, wearable device that can be used during other activities.

It is not suitable for use during pregnancy without medical advice, or for anyone with active pelvic inflammatory disease, vaginal infections, or recent pelvic surgery. If you have any underlying gynaecological conditions, speak to your GP before use. Sexual health is closely linked to overall wellbeing — if you're managing conditions such as pelvic pain or recurrent infections, our women's health collection may also be relevant to you.

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Is the Lovense Flexer Safe and How Should It Be Stored?

The Lovense Flexer vibrator is constructed from 100% body-safe, phthalate-free, BPA-free silicone — a material widely regarded as safe for intimate use. It is also ABS plastic at the charging point. The device is IPX7 waterproof rated, meaning it can be submerged in up to 1 metre of water for up to 30 minutes, making cleaning straightforward. Store it in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight, ideally in the storage pouch provided. Keep it away from other silicone toys to prevent material degradation over time.

This product is a wellness device, not a medicine. However, speak to your doctor or pharmacist before using if you have an underlying medical condition, recent pelvic surgery, or are taking medicines that affect pelvic health.

What Is the Lovense Flexer and What Is It Used For?

The Lovense Flexer is a rechargeable, app-controlled wearable vibrator designed for dual stimulation — internal G-spot stimulation and external clitoral stimulation — simultaneously. It is used as a sexual wellness device by adults with a vagina, either during solo use or partnered intimacy. The NHS recognises that sexual health and pleasure are important components of overall wellbeing, and using body-safe devices like the Flexer can support a healthy, fulfilling sex life.

The device is not a medicinal product and does not treat, diagnose, or prevent any medical condition. It is sold as a consumer wellness product. If you have concerns about sexual dysfunction, pelvic pain, or related conditions, please speak to your GP or a sexual health clinic.

What Do You Need to Know Before Using the Lovense Flexer?

Before using the Lovense Flexer, there are some important considerations to be aware of. This device is intended for adult use only. Please read the following carefully:

Do not use the Lovense Flexer if you:

• Are pregnant, unless you have discussed this with your midwife or GP.
• Have an active vaginal or pelvic infection (e.g. bacterial vaginosis, thrush, or pelvic inflammatory disease).
• Have had recent pelvic, vaginal, or abdominal surgery — wait until fully healed and cleared by your surgeon.
• Have a known allergy or sensitivity to silicone or ABS plastic.
• Are under 18 years of age.

Interactions and compatibility considerations:

• Do not use silicone-based or oil-based lubricants — these degrade the silicone surface of the device.
• Do not use alongside other internal devices simultaneously.
• If you use vaginal medications (e.g. pessaries for thrush), allow treatment to complete before using the device. You can browse our thrush treatments if you need support with an active infection first.

How Should You Use the Lovense Flexer?

Using the Lovense Flexer correctly ensures both comfort and safety. Follow these steps each time:

1. Charge the device fully using the magnetic USB charger before first use (approximately 70 minutes).
2. Wash the device with warm water and mild, unscented soap. Rinse thoroughly and allow to dry.
3. Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to the smaller internal arm.
4. Gently insert the smaller arm into the vaginal canal, positioning the larger arm against the clitoris.
5. Download the Lovense Remote app (free, iOS and Android) and pair the device via Bluetooth.
6. Select a vibration pattern or create a custom one within the app.
7. To share control with a partner, use the app's long-distance feature and send them an invite link.
8. After use, power off the device, clean it thoroughly, and store in the provided pouch.

What Are the Possible Side Effects of Using the Lovense Flexer?

The Lovense Flexer is a non-pharmaceutical device, so it does not carry the same side effect profile as a medicine. However, as with any intimate device, some people may experience discomfort or reactions. If you experience persistent discomfort, stop use immediately and consult a healthcare professional.

Common experiences (usually mild and temporary):

• Mild localised soreness or sensitivity after extended use.
• Temporary skin irritation if lubricant is not compatible with your skin type.
• Mild vaginal dryness if used without sufficient lubrication.

Less common concerns:

• Allergic reaction to silicone or ABS plastic (rare — discontinue use if redness, swelling, or itching occurs).
• Disruption to vaginal flora if hygiene protocols are not followed consistently.
• Discomfort if the device is not correctly positioned for your anatomy.

If you notice unusual discharge, persistent irritation, or signs of infection after use, seek advice from your GP or a sexual health clinic. You can also explore our personal lubricants collection to find a compatible, body-safe option that reduces friction and irritation.

How Should You Store the Lovense Flexer?

• Store in the provided storage pouch in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight.
• Do not store in contact with other silicone toys — silicone-on-silicone contact can cause surface degradation over time.
• Keep away from extreme heat (e.g. do not leave in a hot car or near a radiator).
• Ensure the device is fully dry before storing to prevent moisture build-up.
• Keep out of reach of children.
• Do not store with the charging cable wrapped tightly around the device — this can damage the magnetic charging pins.