DAME - Pom Flexible Vibrator - Plum

What Is the Dame Pom Flexible Vibrator UK?

The Dame Pom in Plum is a thoughtfully designed personal wellness device built for external clitoral stimulation. If you've been searching for a flexible vibrator UK that genuinely adapts to your body rather than the other way around, the Pom is worth your attention. Made by Dame — a brand founded by women with a focus on evidence-informed sexual wellness — this device features three independently bendable zones, allowing you to shape it precisely where you need it. It's crafted from 100% body-safe, phthalate-free silicone and is fully waterproof, making it one of the more versatile options in its category. You can explore the full range of personal wellness products, including personal lubricants that pair well with this device, at Cured Pharmacy.

Sexual wellness is increasingly recognised as an important component of overall health. The NHS acknowledges that sexual wellbeing contributes to physical and emotional health, and devices like the Dame Pom are used by many people to explore their bodies, manage stress, and support pelvic floor awareness. At £94.99, it sits at the higher end of the personal massager market — but the build quality, whisper-quiet motor, and rechargeable design reflect that price point.

How Does the Dame Pom Vibrator Work?

The Dame Pom uses a rechargeable internal motor to deliver targeted vibration through its flexible silicone body. Unlike rigid vibrators, the three-zone bendable structure means you can customise the angle and contact point without repositioning the entire device. Here's how it functions:

• The motor sits within the body of the device and transmits vibration evenly across all three zones.
• You bend each zone independently to create a shape that fits your anatomy.
• A single button cycles through multiple vibration intensities and patterns.
• The whisper-quiet motor operates at a low noise level, making it discreet during use.
• Magnetic USB charging means no fiddly ports — simply attach the cable to the base.

The silicone surface transmits vibration efficiently while remaining soft against skin. Because it's non-porous, it doesn't harbour bacteria between uses, which is an important hygiene consideration for any personal wellness device.

Who Should Use the Dame Pom Vibrator?

The Dame Pom is designed for adults seeking external clitoral stimulation. It's particularly well-suited to people who find rigid vibrators uncomfortable or difficult to position correctly. It may also be helpful for those exploring their bodies after a period of illness, hormonal change, or following gynaecological procedures — though you should always seek medical advice before using any personal device if you're recovering from surgery or have an active pelvic health condition.

• Adults seeking a body-safe, external personal massager
• People who prefer a flexible, adaptable design over a fixed shape
• Those with sensitive skin who need phthalate-free, hypoallergenic materials
• Anyone wanting a rechargeable, waterproof device for use in or out of water

How Does the Dame Pom Compare to Other Personal Massagers?

Is the Dame Pom Suitable for Sensitive Skin?

Yes. The Dame Pom's 100% silicone construction makes it one of the more skin-friendly options available. Silicone is non-porous, meaning it doesn't absorb bacteria or bodily fluids, and it's free from latex, phthalates, and BPA — all of which can cause irritation in people with sensitive skin or allergies. If you have a known latex allergy or skin sensitivity, this is a meaningful advantage over devices made from blended or lower-grade materials. For those managing broader skin health concerns, Cured Pharmacy also stocks a range of skin care products that may support your overall skin wellness routine.

Store the Dame Pom in its provided pouch, away from direct sunlight and extreme temperatures. Do not use silicone-based lubricants with this device, as they can degrade the silicone surface over time. Water-based lubricants are always the correct choice.

This product is a personal wellness device, not a medicine. However, speak to your doctor or pharmacist before using if you have an underlying pelvic health condition, are recovering from surgery, or have any concerns about suitability.

What Is the Dame Pom and What Is It Used For?

The Dame Pom Plum is an external personal massager designed primarily for clitoral stimulation. It is a non-medical consumer wellness device — not a pharmaceutical product — but it sits within the broader category of sexual health and wellbeing, which the NHS recognises as an important part of overall health. The Pom is used by adults who want a body-safe, flexible, and rechargeable vibrator that can be shaped to suit individual anatomy. It is not intended for internal use.

Sexual wellbeing can play a meaningful role in mental and physical health. Research published via NHS-linked resources suggests that sexual activity and self-exploration can contribute positively to stress reduction, sleep quality, and emotional wellbeing. The Dame Pom is one tool that some people incorporate into their personal wellness routine for these reasons.

What Do You Need to Know Before Using the Dame Pom?

Before using the Dame Pom, there are a few important considerations to keep in mind. This device is intended for external use only and should never be used internally. Always read the manufacturer's instructions before first use.

Do not use the Dame Pom if:

• You have broken, irritated, infected, or inflamed skin in the area of use
• You are recovering from gynaecological surgery — seek medical advice first
• You have a known allergy to silicone (rare, but possible)
• You have an active pelvic infection or sexually transmitted infection affecting the external genitalia
• You are using it near electronic medical devices such as pacemakers without medical guidance

Interactions and compatibility notes:

• Do not use silicone-based lubricants — these degrade the silicone surface
• Oil-based lubricants are also not recommended as they can damage the material
• Use only water-based lubricants for compatibility and hygiene
• Do not use with latex condoms placed over the device, as silicone may affect latex integrity

How Should You Use the Dame Pom?

Using the Dame Pom correctly ensures both safety and the best possible experience. Follow these steps each time:

1. Charge the device fully before first use using the magnetic USB cable (approximately 90 minutes).
2. Wash the device with warm water and mild, fragrance-free soap before use.
3. Bend the three flexible zones into your preferred shape to suit your anatomy.
4. Apply a small amount of water-based lubricant to the device or the area of skin if desired.
5. Press the single button to power on and cycle through vibration intensities and patterns.
6. Use externally only — apply gently to the clitoris or other external erogenous areas.
7. After use, power off, wash thoroughly, dry completely, and store in the provided pouch.

If you're also exploring other aspects of your sexual health, Cured Pharmacy's condoms and sexual health collection offers a range of complementary products.

What Are the Possible Side Effects of the Dame Pom?

The Dame Pom is a non-pharmaceutical device, so it does not carry the same side effect profile as a medicine. However, as with any personal wellness device used on sensitive skin, some people may experience mild reactions.

Common side effects (mild and usually temporary):

• Temporary skin redness or sensitivity at the site of use
• Mild soreness if used with excessive pressure or for prolonged periods
• Skin warmth or flushing in the area of use

Less common side effects:

• Contact irritation if a non-compatible lubricant is used
• Allergic reaction to silicone (very rare — silicone allergy is uncommon)
• Discomfort if used on skin that is already sensitive or irritated

If you notice persistent redness, swelling, or any signs of an allergic reaction such as hives or significant itching, stop use immediately and seek advice from your GP or pharmacist. For broader women's health concerns, you may also find useful information in Cured Pharmacy's women's health collection.

How Should You Store the Dame Pom?

Proper storage keeps your device hygienic and extends its lifespan. Follow these guidelines:

• Store in the provided fabric pouch to protect the silicone surface from dust and lint
• Keep in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight and heat sources
• Do not store near sharp objects that could puncture or scratch the silicone
• Ensure the device is fully dry before storing to prevent any moisture build-up
• Keep out of reach of children
• Do not store in extreme temperatures (avoid leaving in a hot car, for example)